Ellen Ruth Oakes

Ellen Ruth Oakes, a beloved and influential figure in the realm of mental health, passed away peacefully on January 1, 2025, in Edmond, Oklahoma. She was born on August 19, 1919, in the vibrant community of Bartlesville, Oklahoma, where her journey through life began—a journey that would leave an indelible mark on the hearts of many.

Ellen dedicated her life to the well-being of others as a clinical psychologist, earning her doctorate and establishing a respected career that spanned several decades. Her compassion and understanding made her a beacon of hope for those in need, and her gentle guidance offered solace to countless individuals seeking to navigate the complexities of their mental health. Through her work, Ellen embodied the profound belief that every person deserves to be heard, understood, and supported.

Throughout her life, Ellen cherished the values instilled in her by her loving parents, John Issac Harbodt and Eva Harbodt (Engles), both of whom have preceded her in death. Their legacy of kindness and resilience shone brightly in Ellen’s own interactions, as she continuously inspired those around her to seek positivity and growth.

As we remember Ellen, we celebrate not only her professional accomplishments but also the warmth and light she brought to her personal relationships. Her compassion extended beyond her career as she nurtured friendships and cultivated meaningful connections within her community. Ellen will be fondly remembered for her unwavering dedication to kindness and her capacity to uplift others in their times of need.

In celebrating the life of Ellen Ruth Oakes, we honor a remarkable woman who lived a life full of purpose, love, and profound impact. Her spirit and contributions will forever remain with those fortunate enough to have known her. May her memory be a guiding light, inspiring us all to carry forth her legacy of empathy and understanding in our own lives.