What to Say to a Grieving Friend?

Oklahoma City Cremation • February 17, 2020

After learning that someone you know has lost someone close to them, you may be at a loss about what to say. You’ll definitely want to say something to cheer them up and to let them know you care. Whether at the memorial after the Yukon, OK direct cremation or before the final services take place, you’ll want to know how you can convey your condolences.

Here‘s a look at some of the things you can say to a friend who has had a loss in their family.

I’m Praying for You

This statement can be a meaningful thing to say if your friend is a person of faith. It’ll encourage them and let them know that someone cares and wishes them well in their time of need. Of course, you might not want to say something like this if your friend is an atheist or an agnostic. It’ll depend on your relationship with them. Sometimes these sentiments will mean a lot even if someone is not particularly religious or spiritual in nature.

Let Me Know How I Can Help

You can bet that your friend will have a lot on their plate before and after the direct cremation. They’ll be glad to know they can count on you to help in some way. Whether this means assisting with some chores, helping to accommodate mourners flying in for the memorial, or doing something else, you can let your friend know you are willing to help. It might be best if you offer help with specific things rather than simply make a blanket statement. For instance, if you live on the same street, you might offer to take your friend’s dog for a walk. You can also offer to mow their lawn, trim their hedges, or cook them a hearty meal.

You Can Call Me Anytime

Are you really close to your grieving friend? There’s a saying that a friend in need is a friend indeed – and this is all the more the case during a time of crisis. Let your friend know that you’re there for them and that they can call you anytime they want. But don’t leave it at that. You should also give them a call every now and then to find out how they’re doing. That’s being a friend.

If you say any of the abovementioned statements to your grieving friend, you’ll be able to encourage them. They’ll know they aren’t alone in their time of need.

Do you need more tips on what to say when someone you know has lost a family member? You can ask the good folks at a Yukon, OK direct cremation provider for some more recommendations. While you’re at it, you might want to consider preplanning your own final services. That’s where Oklahoma City Cremation comes in. Get in touch with us to ask any questions you may have or  to make an appointment. You can reach us at (405) 608-4141 or come to our office at 910 NW 79th St Oklahoma City, OK 73114. We’ll be honored to help you.

Explore our compassionate cremation services by visiting our website. Our online resource is designed to support you during this challenging time, providing the guidance and information needed to honor your loved ones with care and dignity.

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